A relationship is defined as 1.an emotional or other connection between people; 2. a sexual involvement; affair. And then you have that word love. There was a whole bunch of definitions for that one but the most correct definition is sexual passion or desire. Point? Why does your sexual desire dictate everything in your life? It causes you to choose to fulfill your desires over everything else.....friends, family, work, dignity. But where do you draw the line and say enough is enough? Is sex really worth more than everything else in you life?
So what about the relationships that are "based on more than sex"? Oh yea, they don't exist. Think I'm wrong, prove it! No relationship can last without sex. Look at every relationship that had some form of infidelity. Sex wasn't good so they moved on to the next one. People claim that they are so in love with this one particular person that they will do anything for, as long as the sex is good.
So here's my conclusion: People use the terms "in a relationship" and "love" to validate their desire to have sex.
WHO DAT SAID THEY GON BEAT THEM SAINTS ?! WHO DAT ?! WHO DAT ?!!
ehem, please refer to THIS post to see how the truth came to life.
NFC CHAMPS ?! ON TO THE SUPERBOWL ?! This is history more than yall can believe. Lmao my aunt says they got people out in the streets shootin' like it's new years eve. Only in New Orleans lol. Uhhhh wishing like anything I was there. anyways.
This past week has been the longest in my entire life. Nobody told me so much shit could happen so fast. If I would have known, I probably would have just stayed in the house forever and never made friends b.c I can't take this. Have you ever had friends that you thought you knew and loved ...and then found out that they have no heart? You think you know people so well, then next thing you know, you turn around and you can't even recognize them.
There is so much shit today that has peoples' morals all types of twisted. Choosing things instead of people? Money instead of morals? Impulse instead of common sense? Fear instead of friends?
I don't know when this happened, but I sure as hell didn't see it coming. If I would have had the slightest idea everything could go down the drain so quickly, you better know I would have done everything in my power to stop it. Too late now...
If there was anything that I could do, I would...too bad not everyone thinks that way. Homies for life though, right? Until shit gets real. Then it's "your ass or mine" ... "your ass, not mine" ...
I can't even stand to think about how it must feel. Abandonment. Since when did shit become more important than brothers? Because I no doubt missed that memo.
It hurts to think how quickly people can turn their back on the ones that thought they'd be there forever. I wonder how many people are actually like that. I mean, I knew people were fake, obviously. But I never would have guessed that they could be so fake. Then again, I was probably just being naive.
For those who haven't heard Haiti has been hit with a massive earthquake and the whole country is ruined. My heart goes out to everyone whose familes and friends are affected by this terrible time. I also am waiting upon hearing from my family who is living there so Please keep us (haiti) in your prayers. FOr donations Text "Haiti" 90999 for a $10 donation or text "Yele" 501501 for a $5 donation thanks for your support.
The Wu-Tang Clan is bizzack !! The Return of the Wu and Friends is the new album scheduled to drop I'm no too sure when. But yea, the album consists of 16 tracks compiled from songs recorded during 2000-2008 and blah blah. It's produced and put together by DJ Mathematics and features all nine of your Wu-Tang favorite MCs . Cop it when they drop it.
When the title Black Thoughts is said more than one idea can pop into your head.It could either be black thoughts such as death, or depression.When I say black thoughts I mean thoughts of an African American.
How we are perceived and what sometimes goes on through our minds.
Growing up in America black people are often perceived in many ways. In the past we were slaves and worthless, to great writers and musicians, threats to society, and educated people we are able to hold important positions such as President. Slaves were brought into America from the homeland Africa and forced to work on plantation fields. We were treated as animals but later freed and given a chance to live. During the Harlem Renaissance people such as Langston Hughes and Sir Duke gave African Americans a name with their creativity and liveliness with the words they wrote and the music that came out of the instrument they played. As time grew some Africans Americans begin to do things that were not good and out of their character using, violence, drugs as well as many other things with led them to being incarcerated. (To date most of the population of inmates is African American males.This is sad or maybe even ignorant.). But from there some of us grew with big dreams and in 2008 we made it possible that a man or woman, black or white can become President of the United States.
My question is were we really granted this opportunity or is that we just haven’t taken it?As an ethnicity are we making a god name for ourselves? These are the questions that are always in my head when I am judged because of the way I look and not by my actions.Sometimes I feel that a lot of the flaws within the African American can I fact be because of “the white man”. They are the ones who put us here, the ones who arrest and beat us down and the ones that tell us we will never be on the level they are on.But when thinking with my brain and not with ignorance the reason we are the way we are perceived is because we allow ourselves to be shrank into someone else’s standards and not our own. We as people need to stop blaming other people for our down fall. Like nobody made you sell that weed, and nobody gave you that gun. We always want to point the finger at someone else instead of pointing it and the real person to blame OURSELVES. Nelson Mandela once said “ Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are POWERFUL beyond measures.” We have the power to do whatever we want with our lives and the choices that we make not only us but the people around us.
With that being said Black Thoughts for me isn’t anything dark or sad but it is a story about a group of people and the way they take on society.
TRENTON — The New Jersey Legislature approved a measure on Monday that would make the state the first in the region and the 14th in the nation to legalize the use of marijuana for medical reasons.
The measure, passed on the final day of the legislative session, would allow patients diagnosed with severe illnesses like cancer, AIDS, muscular dystrophy and multiple sclerosis to have access to marijuana..........(READMORE)
Question: Does that Melanie Fiona song irk anyone else as much as it does me ? Why is girl so pathetic ? & I used to like her too. I think I even posted about her a while back.. actually I don't think I did, but whatever.
Anyway, she lost my respect with that song. Like seriously how do you go from this:
